home again

well, i'm back from my visit. it was a good one. the 6pm visits are the longest ones. the next visit won't be until thursday @ 6pm again. Mike rehashed some stories from his past including stories about a Dominatrix named Joetta. she was really something. beating men was her full time job. she called the men "clients" and made pretty good money. no, Mike was never a client, but they had an affair and became good friends later. Joetta actually had a live in slave who loved being treated badly. he had Tourettes and everyone called him Mike the Blasphemer. neither the slave or any of Joetta's clients were ever allowed to touch her. hmmm...i could enjoy work like that. i would gladly quit the library for a dungeon, a whip and some really naughty men who need some discipline.

now back to the subject: Maniac Mike had a Coke and some pretzels and we talked and held hands like we always do. the visit takes place in a big room with individual tables that can sit four. we must sit across from each other and cannot touch each other above the elbows. we get one kiss and a hug at the start of the visit and another kiss and hug at the end. the visits SUCK big time. he is in Medium Security but it is run more like a Max facility. tonights visit lasted from 6pm to 8:30pm. visits are either at 1pm, 4pm or 6pm and change during the week. visitors have a dress code to follow and we must pass through a metal detector. occasionally, they'll spring a random drug test on us, usually around a major holiday. it is all very tedious.