sexologist dream

last night i dreamed that i was a sex therapist. i had one couple in my office. they had filled out a questionnaire before they came in for their appointment. one question was: How often do you have oral sex? the wife had checked off 'often' and the husband checked off 'once in awhile'. i asked the wife when the last time they had oral sex was and she said 'two weeks ago'. the husband agreed. so i asked the wife, who was mousy and timid and plain, if she really considered every two weeks 'often' and she just shrugged and said that she thought it was. of course, the husband did not agree. he thought that atleast 2 or 3 times a week would be often. it's funny, but i felt for the husband and not the wife. she seemed so 'blah' and uncommunicative, mousy and a little shifty. i felt that she was not committed to the marriage, not because of the lack of oral sex, but because she had a sort of an 'oh well' attitude. i told the couple that i believed they needed a marriage counsellor and that they needed to learn how to communicate first. they had come to me because the husband could not get it up, and i could see that it was mostly the wifes fault because she just was not loving or supportive. maybe she was depressed. anyway, i wasn't able to help them and sent them away. then my husband came over and we had sex on my desk! score one for the sexologist!